Servers are a restaurantās frontline sales force. They play a key role in building check averages and cultivating relationships that keep guests coming back.
One of the most powerful tools in a serverās arsenal is upselling, or āsuggestive selling.ā Done right, itās a proven way to bolster profits and guide customers to items that enhance their experience. But thereās a fine line between selling and making customers feel pressured or manipulated. In other words, the technique requires finesse.
Tips for Upselling at Your Restaurant
Start at the Front Door
āThe greeter can take customers to the table and suggest a refreshing drink,ā says Dan Longton, President and CEO of Florida-based TraitSet, a workforce-management service provider. āBefore youāve even seated them, youāve sold a drink.ā
Hold the Water
Consider not automatically serving water. āDrinks like iced tea, at $2, add up to a huge number over the course of a year,ā says Claire Crowell, Director of Operations for A. Marshall Family Foods Inc. in Tennessee.
Suggest Upscale Upgrades
For those customers who do request water, suggest bottled.
Encourage Indulgence
Suggest dessert items three times during service. āEven if customers havenāt saved room for dessert, the suggestion makes them easy take-home sells,ā Crowell says.
Emphasize the Experience
āGood servers always recommend ways to make the meal more pleasurable,ā Longton says. āUltimately itās about better margins and bigger tips, but it starts with the customer experience.ā
Build on Familiarity
Always ask customers if theyāve visited before. If a customer has a favorite dish, suggest ways to enhance it, or recommend other menu items.
Be Genuine
Make personal recommendations. āOne of our servers really likes the BLT, and she upsells it very well, explaining that she likes to add a fried egg and pimiento cheese,ā Crowell says. āItās amazing how many she sells and how much customers appreciate her enthusiasm.ā Customers can sense when servers are just trying to āup the bill.ā
Upsell Right on the Menu
Put a symbol next to your specialties.
Set Customer Expectations
If you talk customers into adding cheese and mushrooms to their burger and those items cost a dollar more, let them know.
Sell Strategically
āA good server is able to suggest a better value that brings more profitāa positive for the customer and the business,ā Crowell says.
Sell the Sizzle
Use enticing descriptions. Make optionsāsuch as a specialty coffee after dinnerāsound inviting to guests who have declined dessert.
Motivate Your Staff
Sponsor contests and give prizes to servers who sell the most.


